You’ll learn how to find your perfect soulmate in his or her mind. Most sites today rely on one technique—online dating—to get people together, and that’s a mistake. While finding a perfect match online can be great, you need more than just a profile to make a connection. By focusing on your mind as well as your physical appearance, you’ll attract your soulmate and get ahead faster in the process. You’ll have more fun and find him or her more easily, too.

The Internet is a great source of information, but it’s also riddled with dangerous predators. Spend just a few minutes on any Internet forum—a dating one included—and you’ll see an endless number of people who would like nothing more than to have the power to stop you from meeting your true love. Those wolves will tell you what your true love wants to hear—and if you’re not careful, you might believe them. They’ll tell you what’s wrong with you so they can tell you what to change. They’ll tell you what you want to hear so they can sell you a bad product or put you on a diet that will ruin your health. They’ll tell you what you want to believe so you’ll stop looking for love with someone who doesn’t want to be with you. They’ll use their power to control you—and unfortunately, many people are preyed upon by them.

Even if you’re an expert at spotting a fake and a liar, you’re still vulnerable. Your fears, insecurities, and insecurities about yourself might mean you’re vulnerable to a lying person who wants to control you. Many women are afraid to go on a date, and those who are afraid never end up meeting the right person. If you’re not prepared to be vulnerable or afraid, you’ll end up alone. If you learn the tools to spot a fake, you’ll become a better conversationalist—you’ll give less credibility to a random comment or a bad photograph. You’ll be able to spot a liar in five seconds flat, and that’s a great thing.

There are a lot of bad people out there who would love nothing better than to get you to waste your time and money on a bad relationship. It is best to keep those people at a distance. While some people may ask you to change for them, you don’t have to change to please them. Change for your own needs. If you’re looking to change yourself to make someone happy, then you may fail
Steps to Get into Good Dating Form

Now, with that out of the way, you can get down to the nitty-gritty of the situation. Here are five tips to make your date dates go well.

1. Know Your Game

You have a goal, right? You are taking someone out to meet the parents, or going to the Oscars, or just holding up some club.

So, know the game. Be the player. Don’t make the mistake of going to a party and acting as if you’re just randomly there for the night. Have a plan.

And don’t be the bastard who picks up a woman at a bar and doesn’t have any idea how to treat her. That’s just going to make you look like an asshole.

2. Pay Attention

We’re not just talking about nodding your head, smiling, and being able to make conversation. At the root of a good date are a sense of attentiveness and an understanding of how the person you’re hanging out with might need your help. If you’re going to a party as the guy friends are there and are totally fine hanging out with them, cool. But if you’re going to be their plus-one, you should be 100% involved in the conversation. I can tell when someone is just there to “be seen,” to make a connection, as opposed to a genuine interest in the conversation and the people around them.

If you’re not sure whether someone else in the room is into you, ask. If you see someone’s eyes wandering elsewhere, or you think they seem distracted or withdrawn, don’t be afraid to reach out.

3. Take Pictures

Photography is a great ice breaker. Put away your phone and have a conversation with the person you’re dating. It makes you seem like you are more present, and if you take a photo of them and send it to your Facebook friends, it makes them feel like an interesting person.

On your phone, download the apps for Instagram and Hipstamatic. They make it so easy to take great pictures, and you can always set up a public or private album.

4. Know How to Decide

If you have a cat, open her eye and give her a treat. She’ll thank you by purring and rubbing her face up against your hand. Her face and eyes said, “I know I’m your pet, and I love you, but